My Four Cents on Sexy-ness!

I was watching a hindi film called 'Musafir', rather I was watching the songs featured in the movie. I basically stopped watching Bollywood films in a sense that I no longer know who stars in which movie, which movie was released before which movie and the list goes on. Anyway, back to the songs.

I heard and liked two of the songs way before I watched the video-clips to them. I was thinking to myself, well the songs are good and up-beaty and what not, the clips must be similar too. Oh boy was I right. They were upbeaty alright. So upbeat that it's guaranteed to make anyone's and everyone's ___ to beat {and I'm not talking about the heart}. In this one song, the 'nayika' was bathing herself with the same soap-water she was using to wash the nayok's car. In bangla there's a semi-cliched sentence that goes something like 'shongkhipto jama-i taar joubon uthle pore'. Well, I felt my brain saying that very sentence in a loop. I must admit, the bloody camera-man did an awsome job of depicting her almost-nakedness-illusion-of-sexy-ness-thing. The 'nayika' squeezes a whole lot of foamy soap down her dress. We see an overhead shot where we can see those same foamed soap located in her cleavage. She then hoses herself down with water {same water she uses to hose down the car}. We again get an insight into how those cleavage located soaps get washed away.

I now come to the second video clip. The song is titled 'Saaki'. The song itself I found sexy for some reason. It's the singer's voice, damn hot in my opinion. The thing is when you hear a song {rather when I hear a song} you try to visualise it. So obviously I was visualising a damn-hot Saaki (female wine-bearer) who is worth worshipping more the wine itself. {If you heard the song, you'd know what I am talking about.} Don't get me wrong, the 'chick' in this clip was hot. She had this forced-sex-y-thing in her and she 'shook' so much. I didn't even know that some parts of the body can be shaken like that. Shows how much I really know. Typically her actions are very sexy in a very uncreative way. At one point I lost track of her sexy-ness because she was just all over the place with all that vigorous shaking. I think this is the reason why I never liked pornography either.

So all this made me think, where did all the sophisticated sexy-ness disappear to? Am I the only one who thinks more layer of clothes are sexier than in-your-face-poke-your-eyes-out-exposed-skin? Ultimately it's not {rather shouldn't be} what you wear or your over-actions that make you sexy, it's your attitude. It's the creativity in own attitude that should project a sense of sexy-ness {if that's the sort of projection one is trying to achieve}. Right now I am reminded of this lady, we'll call her J. When I was in Dhaka, sick in bed, she came and sat next to me one day and believe me, her sexy-ness is far beyond that of the 'chicks' shown in any given music/hindi movie song video. 'My' J was wearing a black shari, with a blouse that matched the achol. She had the most sexy eyes outlined with not-so-thick kajol. She had a semi-sized tip that complimented her face so well. Overall she was a fine specimen of the sort of 'Saaki' woman I once visualised. J has this natural sexy-ness thing overall that I was really amazed {in my sickness too goddamnit}. No unneccessary skin was exposed, not an inch, proof of the fact that one need not strip down to their bikini lines to produce an illusion of sex and sexy-ness. {Frankly, I hate those sexy-ness that effect the groins only.}

Anyway, whatever. What do I know about all this.